The Best Ways Dark Feminine Energy Serves You
Dark femininity is the part of yourself that knows self worth. She knows that all the most luxurious experiences are completely open to her. The dark femininity that’s currently sleeping has interest in you raising the bar for life. Having the world wrapped around your finger is as simple as continuing to build that version to embrace the type of lifestyle in question. Align yourself with that energy and those experiences will open themselves to you.
Surrender to the idea that something or someone, or an experience is possible for you. It’s in your reach for that lifestyle to be something possible for you. Dark feminine energy encourages you to value the self higher than current comfort. She’s the part of you that knows there hasn’t been enough discipline.
Discipline is a scary word, and a worthy practice. The unspoken rule to self discovery is knowing that you’re capable of changing.
Where do you have to balance? What can you do with less of to have more of what sits right with every cell in the body? Remember that there doesn’t need to be a single answer. Only the desire to be curious and see where effort takes you. It’s going to be day and night when you start to feel the forward momentum.
Setting High Standards
Where standards are set completely determines the willingness of the world to concede to you. Higher standards create distance between you and subpar experiences. You start to build standards by experiences. Keep the focus on experiences that make you feel luxurious. The current standards you have in place reflect quality of life.
The discomfort you’re feeling is telling you that the standards held don’t sit well. Working towards new standards is only going to feel uncomfortable because of feelings of unworthiness. The higher your standards, the more challenged you’ll feel. The vision in your mind is worth pursuing especially when it’s uncomfortable.
Once you set standards, every decision should support those standards. Dark femininity reminds you that a luxurious lifestyle is supported by encouraging high standards for the self. She tells you that the best life you’ll experience is one that you make room for. Unpack reasons as to why there’s something telling you that a luxury lifestyle is not in the cards for you.
Decide what feels luxury to you and make all the room it needs.
Once you start, explore where self healing meets the ideal life. Having high standards is going to encourage you to stay out of your comfort zone. The best changes in your life will happen outside the comfort zone. Facing the life standards you’ve been holding to is hard to face only because there’s a challenge to the lack of discipline up until today. Challenges will always give you the opportunity to learn more about you.
And, how to approach the world around you.
Becoming a High Maintenance Woman
When someone calls you high maintenance on a fundamental level, they agree that the bar set speaks to them. High maintenance is defined directly by how much you value yourself. The time and money invested in the self, will supercharge self confidence. High maintenance reflects how you interact with the world. When you reinforce those boundaries, decisions come easy. Actions always reflect what you’re willing to put up with.
Put up with experiences that help you reflect and grow.
The people that are going to be offended by the idea of someone being high maintenance are only intimidated by the idea that their misery isn’t owed company. When you stick to a high maintenance routine, it becomes a habit. Habits flow and create a foundation that sets you up to make decisions from a place of security. Being high maintenance is a responsibility to yourself that whatever decisions you make, are the ones you stick with.
When you’re willing to put up with doing things that aren’t swayed by your mood, something is unlocked. You gain this understanding that the feeling of being challenged by something is only temporary.
And, with a healthy intuition, the right challenges will be obvious. There are so many moments that pass right on because of ignoring the dark feminine energy. Sometimes having the audacity is just what the universe is waiting for.
Establishing Strong Boundaries
Having strong boundaries is one of the most relentless and compassionate ways to show up for yourself. Becoming protective of strong boundaries lets feminine energy feel safe. Reinforce as often as possible that things are only working out within the boundaries set. Boundaries aren’t mean, rude, or disrespectful. They tell people how you are willing to be treated.
Weak boundaries leave others knowing they can take advantage of you. The dark feminine demands a protection of boundaries and a deep understanding of how emotions are affected by boundaries.
Dark femininity urges you to set boundaries for yourself and other people. Life throws situations on you that will tempt different emotions out of you. No matter how you feel, there’s never a situation to betray boundaries. With strong boundaries, a lot of stress melts away. There’s a lot less time spent wondering about others. Because someone who wants you in their life will always respect your boundaries.
The biggest red flag being the first person to disregard boundaries you set.
Remember that your emotions are there to protect, not rule. There’s a lot of self reassurance required to have strong boundaries. Embrace the rush of feelings that come from enforcing those boundaries. Honor them in private, in a safe place. Strong boundaries also encourage vulnerability to the right people. Having strong boundaries never means that you should close off to the world. Boundaries are the blueprint to how a woman frames her experiences.
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